Okay, friends. Today’s very super short, but SO IMPORTANT post I dedicate to two verbs “HAVE TO” and “WANT TO”.
For a week I have been actively working on my head, trying to understand myself, figure out what is going with myself (too long to explain through text), and I had an enlightenment. Everything I have been doing for the last few years I was doing because “ I HAVE TO”, not because “I WANTED TO”, and any sentence that has “have to” in it automatically becomes “purpose”/“goal”/“need”.
My head was always making up purposes for my desires, for example: “I have to wash the dishes”, instead of “I want to wash the dishes because I like when it’s clean!”, “I have to move to WA, because it’s cooler there and I can’t physically live in heat”, instead of “I just love cloudy weather and cold! I want to be comfortable!”! Do you feel the difference in those? I was making everything so difficult! It was taking soooo much energy from me!! What a relief!
However doesn’t understand this post, I sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, wish you to just see THE HUGE DIFFERENCE between these two verbs. Love you, people ❤️
And now, I am going to go celebrate my new life! Have a wonderful evening 🎉 But! I also would love to offer you to comment one sentence that you tell yourself everyday, that starts with “I HAVE TO…” and I will make it look sooo easy for you! You will enjoy doing it!…
So, remember how yesterday I got an enlightenment with “want to” and “have to”? You won’t believe what happened today morning!!
For 4 years I couldn’t fully open my mouth, it would stuck at a certain point and that is it. I thought there is nothing I can do about it, doctor said that I have to just get a special protective screen for my teeth so it doesn’t get worse.
Today morning I opened my mouth fully!! No pain or nothing! Can you imagine how powerful our mind is? Who doesn’t know anything about the relationship between our mind and body, I highly recommend learning more about it. I haven’t done anything to even try fixing it and as soon as I let myself “be”, not “survive” my mouth was freed😀
So, let yourself “be”, not “exist” or “survive”🤫